Sunday, December 30, 2012

the Queen City Style 2012 Top 10

One more day and 2012 is a wrap!  Keeping this short and sweet... Grateful for my blessings and (yes) struggles, I entered 2012 saying out loud "This is going to be a great year!"  For many reasons it was one of the most difficult years and for many reasons, including the Queen City Style and you, it was one of the greatest.  Thanks for being here with me. If the Queen City Style delivers you a fraction of the joy I receive sharing it with you, I consider 2012 a W-I-N.  May 2013 bring you and your loved ones many blessings, great opportunity, hope, faith, patience and understanding for others, will, determination and strength, good health, and most importantly, lots and lots of love... and anything else I may have neglected to include that you are seeking.  In my best effort to choose my favorite looks for 2012, counting backwards, here are my personal Top 10 favs.  I've looked at these, and I wonder, is there consistency?  What do these images say about my personal style?  Do you have an opinion??  Do you have a favorite here?  Is there something more or different you'd like to see?  I would love to know.  Once again, a big 'ole THANKS for being here!!!

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Coach, the Queen City Style, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Pendleton Coat, Zara Jeans, The Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, CAbi Turtleneck, Donna Jernigan Photography, Moments by Donna

KK Bloom Boutique Dress, Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, JJ Winters Clutch, Lipp Boutique, Blinde Sunglasses

Pastel Eclectic, Everybody Everywear, the Queen City Style, BCBG Runway Collection, Banana Republic Clutch, Gap Hat, Belk pashmina, Finity vest, the Queen City Style

Woman Shops World Dog Leash, CiGi Guz jacket, Jessica Simpson Jean Shorts, Blinde Sunglasses, BCBG Shoes, Chanel Purse, the Queen City Style

Vintage Lillie Rubin, Bakelite Bracelets, summerbird, JJ Winters Chain Bag, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, the Queen City Style, birdsong brewery, Noda

Ann Roth Shoes Bag, Steve Madden Shoes, J. Crew Dot Skirt, Anthropologie Skirt, Bauble Bar Earrings, the Queen City Style

J. Crew, Steve Madden Pumps, CiGi Guz Skirt, Bakelite Bangles, summerbird, the Queen City Style

summerbird, Giorgio Armani, Tory Burch, Blinde Eywear, Chanel, Melinda Maria, the Queen City Style

Zara Belt, Vintage Dress, Luv Aj Earrings, Melinda Maria Ring, Blinde Sunglasses, the Queen City Style

ASOS dress, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Bauble Bar

I wish you all the best for a stylish, happy and love-filled 2013!!
With much gratitude, Whitley

Thursday, December 27, 2012

All You Need Is Love

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC


ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

ASOS All You Need Is Love T-shirt, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse cowboy boots, Chanel quilted purse, Gap T-Shirt, Thomas St. Tavern, the Queen City Style, Blinde Natural Born Thriller Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc., Charlotte NC Pool Hall, Foosball in Charlotte, NC

Shirt: ASOS (on SALE). Long sleeved shirt: Gap, best long sleeve T ever! Jeans: Zara, similar pair. Boots: Charlie 1 Horse, mine are from Constance Consignment. Jacket: Forever 21, also love this one. Purse: Chanel. Belt: old, here's one. Sunglasses: Blinde, similar pair. Earrings: Made my a friend. Rings: Melinda Maria, Tiffany, custom by Diamonds Direct

At some point I'll have to write a post about my favorite neighborhood spots in the Queen City.  I have my short list, from which I rarely stray, but there's only one Thomas Street Tavern. Back in the day this might as well have been my home away from home.  Totally a fraternity groupie.  If you've been there, you know the cool factor.  Now that I'm a little more settled down and all grown up (right), I don't make it over there as often, but walking through those doors felt like yesterday. If you take a stool at the bar, don't be surprised to be sitting between a truck driver and an investment banker; an actress to your left and a pool shark to your right. Thomas Street Tavern is salt of the earth cool, unpretentious and friendly; the perfect location to don my favorite new T-shirt that makes me insta-happy just wearing it.  All You Need Is Love.

Love ya! xo-Whitley

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Skirt Love At The Mint Museum


Alyssa Nicole Skirt, Banana Republic Green Coat, Nine West Animal Print Pumps, Blinde Sunglasses, Earrings from JT Posh, Chanel Purse, J. Crew Blouse, Vintage Jewelry, the Queen City Style, The Mint Museum

Alyssa Nicole Skirt, Banana Republic Green Coat, Nine West Animal Print Pumps, Blinde Sunglasses, Earrings from JT Posh, Chanel Purse, J. Crew Blouse, Vintage Jewelry, the Queen City Style, The Mint Museum

Alyssa Nicole Skirt, Banana Republic Green Coat, Nine West Animal Print Pumps, Blinde Sunglasses, Earrings from JT Posh, Chanel Purse, J. Crew Blouse, Vintage Jewelry, the Queen City Style, The Mint Museum

Alyssa Nicole Skirt, Banana Republic Green Coat, Nine West Animal Print Pumps, Blinde Sunglasses, Earrings from JT Posh, Chanel Purse, J. Crew Blouse, Vintage Jewelry, the Queen City Style, The Mint Museum

Alyssa Nicole Skirt, Banana Republic Green Coat, Nine West Animal Print Pumps, Blinde Sunglasses, Earrings from JT Posh, Chanel Purse, J. Crew Blouse, Vintage Jewelry, the Queen City Style, The Mint Museum

Alyssa Nicole Skirt, Banana Republic Green Coat, Nine West Animal Print Pumps, Blinde Sunglasses, Earrings from JT Posh, Chanel Purse, J. Crew Blouse, Vintage Jewelry, the Queen City Style, The Mint Museum

SkirtAlyssa Nicole, now on Sale, (last seen here). BlouseJ. Crew (old), similarCoatBanana Republic (old), similarShoesNine West, on major SALE. PurseChanelEarrings: from J.T. PoshBracelets: My Great Grandmother's, Stella & DotRings: Tiffany and custom by Diamonds Direct.

By way of super sweet and stylish fellow Queen City blogger, Elspeth, I first laid eyes on this skirt. It was love at first sight, and after I saw the price, I just had to have her.  I've been wearing it all through the fall and winter seasons. I'd go so far as to say this is the perfect year round piece!  Do you have a favorite item that suits all four seasons?

Hope your holiday is merry and bright!
-Whitley

Sunday, December 23, 2012

A Christmas Ball!


Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Grandmother's Skirt, Great-Grandother's Jacket and vintage bracelet, the Queen City Style, Blinde Sunglasses, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography, CAbi turtleneck, Earrings from J.T. Posh, J. Crew Boots, Chanel Purse,

Skirt: My Grandmother's. Turtleneck: CAbi (old), similar one. Jacket: My Great-Grandmother's. Purse: Chanel, here's one.  Boots: J. Crew (old). Sunglasses: Blinde, similar pairEarrings: from J.T. Posh. Bracelets: My Great-Grandmother's, Grandmother-in-law's, Grandmother's, Stella & Dot. Rings: Tiffany, Diamonds Direct.

I'm not exactly sure where my Grandmother got this skirt, but I know it came from some far off country during her world travels with my Grandfather.  Some of the coolest things she owns she purchased during her travels, and I was always so fascinated by the garments.  You could just tell they were made different from all the rest.  This skirt is no exception.  It has always been one of my favorite inheritance pieces from her; definitely a top pick for my holiday go-to attire. Do you have any favorite holiday pieces?

I hope you and yours have the happiest of holidays and a very Merry Christmas!
Let there be love, let there be light!
xx-Whitley

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Shorts + Arooji's Wine Room

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Quen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Anthropologie Shirt, Cabi Turtleneck, Piperlime Suede Shorts, Coach Bag, J. Crew Boots, Target Belt, Blinde Sunglasses, Jewelmint Bee Earrings, Melinda Maria Grecian Ring, Tiffany Interlocking Circles Ring, Diamonds Direct, Arooji's Wine Room, the Queen City Style, Charlotte, NC

Shirt: Anthropologie (old). Shorts: Piperlime and here's another pair. Turtleneck: CAbi, here's one. Boots: J. Crew. (old) here's a pair. Jacket: Gap.  Purse: Coach. Belt: Target. Tights: J. Crew. Sunglasses: Blinde, similar pair. Bee Earrings: Jewelmint. Other Earrings: made by a friend.  Bracelets: My Great-Grandmother's, Grandmother's, Grandmother-in-law's, Stella & Dot. Rings: Melinda Maria, Tiffany, custom at Diamonds Direct

Donna and I had so much fun shooting over at Arooji's Wine Room.  If you live in the Queen City, head on over to the Shops at Morrison and cozy up to a glass for yourself... Great food, tasty vino, delightful environment and friendly conversation.  Here I go again with this is one of my favorite outfits, but really it is.  I think it totally speaks to my more common "boho" style by day, and it's so much fun to pair shorts, tights and boots!  Do you agree? 

We are all still grieving the heartbreak in Connecticut.  We have to treat one another with love and kindness. I am praying for those families affected, as I know we all are.  Thank you so much for taking time to be here with me.

I hope you are having a loving week!
-Whitley

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Vintage Tartan Plaid

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography

Pendleton Classic Tartan Plaid, Zara ripped jeans, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, Blinde Sunglasses, Bechtler Museum Charlotte, NC, the Queen City Style, Coach Bag, Moments by Donna, Donna Jernigan Photography 7

Coat: Pendleton, LOVE this one and this one. Jeans: Zara, Boots: Charlie 1 Horse, Turtleneck: CAbi, here's one. Purse: Coach, Sunglasses: Blinde, similar pair. Belt: old, love this one and this oneEarrings: old. Bracelets: My Great-Grandmother's, Grandmother's, Grandmother-in-law's, Stella & Dot.  Rings: Tiffany, custom at Diamonds Direct.

Have you noticed that Tartan Plaid is everywhere?  You probably know I'm more into going against the grain than following the trends, but thanks to my favorite winter coat, my Grandmother's Pendleton classic, I'll be wearing Tartan Plaid year after year for the rest of my life. I'm not kidding, however, when I tell you this is the most well-made coat I have ever owned.  I've had the coat probably 12 years, and it must be at least 30 years old.  My mother could probably speak better to that, but at any rate, it is the perfect coat... The lining is impeccable, the weight and length are just right, and the fabric is flawless.  Plaid perfection!  I was not able to find a Tartan Plaid Pendleton, but here's a solid Pendleton classic in red and one in black, and my top picks for current Tartan Plaid coats are here and here.  Thanks for reading!

Happy Top 'o the week to ya!  
-Whitley

PS-What do y'all think of my awesome new partner in photographic crime??  Donna is absolutely blowing my mind; I can't even stand it!  Yippee!!

Linking up with Real Girl Glam for some Real Girl Style.  Go check out all the lovely ladies!

Real Girl Style Link Up

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Ouch! + Facebook Love? + Necklace Winner :)

#1-I hope you ALL are having a wonderful weekend!  Since I've been getting a little more personal here lately on the Queen City Style, I thought I'd proceed by sharing with you a little on how mine started.  Here's evidence of my totally not awesome quadruple barrel roll on concrete during my Saturday morning run.  Fan-freaking-tastic.  Am starting to feel more and more uncoordinated here lately.  Must. Get. To Bed. Earlier.


#2-I am working really hard to reach 1,000 likes on Facebook by 2013!  If you are not already one, will you become one by clicking HERE?  I often post different things there :). THANKS!!


#3-Last but not least, click HERE to see if you are the winner of this gorgeous Charles Emerson Designs necklace!  Thanks to everyone who entered!


I hope you have had a wonderful weekend!
My very best, Whitley

Friday, December 14, 2012

I Want To Thank You

It is Friday night, I have Christmas cards to label, stamp and stuff, presents to order, the tree is finally up, but there are still boxes of decorations spattered across my den and living room.  I've hugged my two boys tightly.  Today's tragedy in Connecticut is a devastation.  Like yours, my heart is completely broken.  I listened to the awful news while I was going through my emails.  I don't get much TV time, so I only know the basic facts, but I understand the shooter suffered from depression.  If so, it is horrible that his state of mental health went so far in this direction.  I shared in yesterday's post some of my own personal struggles.  This anger, jealousy, hate, whatever it is, locally and globally... why must we be cruel to another?  We must start by teaching our children well and show them a lot of love, and we must learn to deal with our pain in a different manner.


My favorite new shirt, now on sale :)!
Get it here.

I just want to thank you for being here.  Your support in response to what I shared yesterday was and is amazing.  I heard from people I've never spoken to or even knew read this blog!  I can't tell you what a wonderful feeling it is.  It is so awesome to know the Queen City Style has made an impression on so many of you.  Please know you've made a huge impression on me.  Through the Queen City Style, at the age of 35, I have finally found a way to channel my creativity, passion and love for great style, writing, sharing, collaborating and making new friends. You have made this ALL the more meaningful and fun.  This about sums it up how good it feels...


THANK YOU!!
I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xx-Whitley

PS-Today is the last day to enter to win this gorgeous necklace by Charles Emerson Designs!
Click Here to enter.


Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Picture Perfect Perception

For quite some time now I've contemplated the level of personal information sharing I would dispense here.  Though I've always felt over-sharing isn't that cute, I make a miserable authority on hiding behind insecurities.  So I suppose this first self induced therapeutic post comes in the form of a message I want to share with you amazing readers.  Neither me, nor my life is perfect.  In fact, at most times these days I feel more or less off kilter (to put it lightly).  It hasn't always been this way, but I would say, given the circumstances, there has been an underlying case of the blues for the greater part of the last 12-18 months.... and I have no effing idea why.  Well, I have ideas, but in keeping the over-sharing to a minimum as aforementioned... I have many blessings, and I count them all, but that doesn't mean I have it all checked in perfect form.


I feel a strong desire to share this information with some of you as it has come to my attention that I may possibly be portraying the persona of having it all.  Not so long ago a good friend called to congratulate me on a Charlotte magazine award the Queen City Style received.  She went on to explain that she was recently at a gathering where some girls were asking “did you see that so and so Whitley was wearing” (on the Queen City Style)?  “Whitley, you are all the buzz,” my friend proceeded.  Immediately I felt insecure and shared that I hoped people were saying only nice things.  Soon after, someone (a male) who I am fairly close to by association, asked me in front of others, “So, I don’t get it; taking all of these pictures of yourself… ‘Hey, look at me!’  What is it you are trying to do?”  I get it.  I understand his lack of understanding, but the delivery of his message hurt.  I just want to put it out there that I am NOT a super confident person; quite the opposite, but that is how his comment made me feel I might be interpreted by someone who sees me here.  


On some minuscule level, I understand what it must be like for those famous people in magazines whose lives are judged, berated and torn apart based on perception.  I'm guilty of it.  Admittedly, I stand in the longest line at the supermarket just so I can get my fill of glamour sleaze and dish.  It's so totally intriguing to look and ponder.  But let me say this; I do not and will not judge.  Perhaps, however, this is a perfect example for my own insecurities, and so, if me or this fashion blog delivers some false sense of self or persona for having it all, I feel compelled to tell you I am filled with insecurities.  I do not think I am ugly, but I tend to think I am not all that pretty, not terribly bright and I have a lot of ground to gain as it pertains to worldly contributions.  The worst part about all of this, for me.... I know that confidence is far more attractive than a lack thereof.  I wish I did not care as much what others thought of me, but I do.  I want to be liked.  Being kind and doing nice things for others brings me joy.  Perhaps the reaction of thanks and approval serves as a source of validation.  I know it's what it is on the inside that matters.  I feel good about what is on my inside, but I'm just REALLY ready to make the morph from caterpillar to butterfly.


I am going to cut this for now, and perhaps come back later with more some other time.  I am not seeking your pity or praise.  I just want to share this side of myself with you, and I want you to know how much I appreciate you being here.  Your readership makes me happy beyond words.  I would love so much to meet each and every one of you, and so if you ever see me across the produce aisle or catch me in the check out line taking in a dose of someone else's picture perfect life, please introduce yourself and give me a hug!

I hope you are having a fabulous week!  All my lovin'... I send to you :) -Whitley

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

This Skirt + Introducing Photography By Donna Jernigan

ASOS Trumpet hem skirt, Great-Grandmother's jacket, CAbi turtleneck, Michael Kors purse from J.T. Posh, the Queen City Style, Tory Burch pumps from summerbird, Blinde Sunglasses

ASOS Trumpet hem skirt, Great-Grandmother's jacket, CAbi turtleneck, Michael Kors purse from J.T. Posh, the Queen City Style, Tory Burch pumps from summerbird, Blinde Sunglasses

ASOS Trumpet hem skirt, Great-Grandmother's jacket, CAbi turtleneck, Michael Kors purse from J.T. Posh, the Queen City Style, Tory Burch pumps from summerbird, Blinde Sunglasses

ASOS Trumpet hem skirt, Great-Grandmother's jacket, CAbi turtleneck, Michael Kors purse from J.T. Posh, the Queen City Style, Tory Burch pumps from summerbird, Blinde Sunglasses

ASOS Trumpet hem skirt, Great-Grandmother's jacket, CAbi turtleneck, Michael Kors purse from J.T. Posh, the Queen City Style, Tory Burch pumps from summerbird, Blinde Sunglasses

ASOS Trumpet hem skirt, Great-Grandmother's jacket, CAbi turtleneck, Michael Kors purse from J.T. Posh, the Queen City Style, Tory Burch pumps from summerbird, Blinde Sunglasses

Skirt: ASOS. Jacket: My Great-Grandmother's, sure would love this oneTurtleneck: CAbi, here's one. Purse: Michael Kors, similar, from JT Posh. Shoes: Tory Burch, similar pair, from summerbird. Sunglasses: Blinde, similar pair. Earrings: (old), similar pair. Bracelets: My Great-Grandmother's, Grandmother's and Grandmother-in-law's, Stella & Dot. Rings: My Grandmother's, Tiffany, custom by Diamonds Direct.

I had my eye on this skirt for quite some time until I couldn't turn my back any longer.  Do you ever get that feeling?  You see something, you love it so much, you walk away, but it doesn't escape your mind?  My rule of thumb is if you want something so badly, and you can afford to pay for it in cash, that is when you don't say no. The affordability of the skirt did not hurt, and for the record, ASOS is my favorite on-line retailer.  Additionally, I could not be more excited about my new collaboration with Donna Jernigan of Donna Jernigan Photography, Inc. and Moments by Donna. I am so totally marveled by her work... the saturation of the colors and the crispness of the photos. Not to mention, Donna is such a joy and a pleasure.  My ride with the Queen City Style thus far has sent my soul to great heights, and the opportunity to work with Donna sets me soaring. So excited and so, so grateful. 

As ever, so grateful for you too... Whitley

Monday, December 10, 2012

Charles Emerson Designs Necklace Giveaway


C&C California Dress, ASOS Clutch, Charles Emerson Designs Necklace, Blinde Sunglasses, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, the Queen City Style, KK Bloom Necklace, Melinda Maria Cocktail Ring, Tiffany Ring, Diamonds Direct Rings, Stella & Dot Renegade Clusters Necklace, Vintage Jewelry

C&C California Dress, ASOS Clutch, Charles Emerson Designs Necklace, Blinde Sunglasses, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, the Queen City Style, KK Bloom Necklace, Melinda Maria Cocktail Ring, Tiffany Ring, Diamonds Direct Rings, Stella & Dot Renegade Clusters Necklace, Vintage Jewelry, Jewelmint Earrings

C&C California Dress, ASOS Clutch, Charles Emerson Designs Necklace, Blinde Sunglasses, Charlie 1 Horse Boots, the Queen City Style, KK Bloom Necklace, Melinda Maria Cocktail Ring, Tiffany Ring, Diamonds Direct Rings, Stella & Dot Renegade Clusters Necklace, Vintage Jewelry, Jewelmint Earrings

Complete Outfit Credits Here.

Y'all all know from previous posts like this how much I love a statement necklace.  Statement anything, really, but in this case a necklace.  And there is no shortage of love for the Charles Emerson Designs beauty I piled on in the previous post here.  I loved it so much so that I had to reach out to shop owner, Erin White, to see if she would be willing to give away one of these beauties on the Queen City Style.  Well, she said yes!  The necklace is available in three colors, but only one in red and green remains (perfect for your holiday party!), which she so kindly saved for this Giveaway... 





Here are all the ways you may enter:

1) Mandatory Entry: You must follow the Queen City Style by Email or Bloglovin'.
2) Join the Queen City Style on Google Friend Connect.
3) Like Charles Emerson Designs on Facebook.
4) Like the Queen City Style on Facebook.
5) Check out the Charles Emerson Designs shop, and tell me which piece is your favorite.
6) Share this Giveaway on Facebook.  
Be sure to tag the Queen City Style and Charles Emerson Designs!
7) Tell me how YOU would style this fab necklace!

Please let me know in ONE comment the ways you have entered.
This Giveaway ends Saturday, December 15th.  I will announce a winner the next day.
Can't wait to see if you are the winner?  Charles Emerson Designs is offering 20% off your order through Saturday, December 15th using code: GIVEAWAY20 at check out.

Thanks so much for reading, and good luck!
-Whitley

And the winner is...




Hi Whitley! Have to say this is one of my favorite giveaways to date!! I love seeing your weekly emails, I like you and Charles Emerson on FB, I follow you on Google Friend connect, and I shared this giveaway on my FB page!
I LOVE the Cater necklace to go with the Ana bracelet too!

Thanks everyone for entering the Charles Emerson Designs Giveaway!  Shop one last day for 20% Off using code GIVEAWAY20 at Check Out!
Please email me at thequeencitystyle@yahoo.com


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Monday, December 3, 2012

Giorgio Armani In My Closet

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

the Queen City Style, Giorgio Armani Dress from summerbird, Tory Burch Pumps, Chanel Bag, Great-Grandmother's Jacket and Bracelets, Blinde Sunglasses

Dress: Giorgio Armani thanks to summerbird. Jacket: My Great-Grandmother's. Purse: Chanel. Pumps: Tory Burch from summerbird. Sunglasses: Blinde, similar pair. Earrings: old, here's a pair. Bracelets: My Great-Grandmother's. Rings: Melinda Maria, TiffanyDiamonds Direct

I know I say a lot of times here that so-and-so is my favorite new such-and-such, but this dress really might take the cake.  When my friends at summerbird asked me to assist with styling their runway looks for this year's Style Night Out, I about fell on my fanny when I tried on this dress. Truth be told, the already fashioned ensemble seen on the runway here (toward the bottom) did not need a thing from me. I think I did fall on my fanny, however, when summerbird gifted me the dress.  I love a tulip shaped hem line.  Could anything be more ladylike sophisticated? The dress originally retails for $1,695, but I was able to find it on line here discounted by 80%!

I hope you have an absolutely mahhvelous day! 
xx-Whitley