Saturday, May 12, 2012

Happy Mother's Day

 Happy Mother's Day to all the Mothers, 
Grandmothers, Aunts, Sisters, Godmothers, Girlfriends
and anyone else out there who has played a loving role in a child's life.
It truly takes a village to see that the precious little beings
of our world have the necessary guidance, love, encouragement
and support to feel confident and realize their full potential to 
be great and become the next generation of role models.
I am grateful to all of the women in my life who have instilled confidence,
love, faith and courage, not only in me, but in my two precious boys.
Happy Mother's Day to all of you who have touched the life of a child!

My Hanky


My sweet baby Worth


My Mom and Hank


My loving mother-in-law.



Mary and Hank



Hank's Godmother, Anna.


Hank's Godmother, Ashley.


Worth's Godmother, Katherine.


One of my Godmothers, Susan.  
I cannot seem to put my hands on a picture of Aunt Jane,
(mama has them all) but you know I love you very much!!


Me and my mama and Hanky.

  
My Mom.
Go on which ya bad self!


With my Mom at the Rhododendron Brigade 
Mother-Daughter Luncheon, 1996.


Four generations: 
Willa- my Great-Grandmother, Martha- my Grandmother
my Mom and Me.
These are the two stylish ladies you read about on the Queen City Style!


Not long before Willa passed.  She lived to be 96.  She was so lovely!!


The two leading ladies during their "finest hour," as my mother calls it.


Me and my precious boys.



This one's for you, Mom!
Happy Mother's Day!  
I love you.


For the love of being the very best role model, in the very
best of style.  I wish everyone an absolutely lovely day!  Whitley

Friday, May 11, 2012

What Ivana Wore

As you read yesterday, I hosted a virtual
Southern bridal shower for my sweet, stylish friend, Ivana.
Without question, I decided the location for the shower 
needed to be The Duke Mansion.
A wonderful time was had by all!


Below is a glimpse at Ivana's uber stylish fashion sense,
as she considers two ensembles in deciding what to wear to her shower.
Both options are chic and fabulous to me.
Take it away, Ivana!


I have never attended a bridal shower in my life (and unless I move to the US, I probably never will). We simply don't do them here in Europe (except maybe for the UK). I never even thought about having one, when Whitley offered me to throw me a virtual Southern shower. She has taken care of everything: the venue, the menu, the gifts (and you can see the fabulous result on her blog The Queen City Style). All I needed to do was to choose the perfect outfit. At first I was planning to go with pastels, but then I stumbled upon these incredible floral pieces by Etro, and I was lost. I'm not really sure if these outfits would be "South" appropriate, but I think I'd be able to organize a bridal shower (or two) just to be able to wear them!





Follow Ivana to get more fabulous inspiration for living the finer life.


 

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Southern Wedding Shower

Dear Friends,
I am very excited to be hosting a virtual wedding shower today
for my beautiful, super stylish, sweet friend, Ivana.



When Ivana and I decided to host a blog swap with one other,
we immediately got to thinking about what this would look like.
Ivana reminded me of her wedding date, exactly one year from today!
I've been keeping an eye on Ivana's fun fashion sense,
from all the way over in Austria might I add,
ever since I started writing the Queen City Style.  
A contentious risk taker with her own style, trends and fashion,
Ivana's got a flair for all things fun, fabulous and French.
She has fond memories of a strong bond with her stylish Grandmother,
reminding me of my relationship with my own.


Not to mention, that pretty face.
Precious Peanut #1 star gazingly pointed out the obvious one day:
"Mommy, is that pretty lady your friend?" 


Ivana loves the finer things in life as much as the rest of us.
Her blog, Macarons and Pearls, is the perfect channel for vicariously living
such a fine life, unless of course, you already do.  
And in that case, cheers to you!
As you can see, like the rest of us girls, Ivana loves an opportunity 
to be creative and play dress up, so today I am giving her that
by way of throwing her a Southern Wedding Shower.
I thought this would be a fun way to share with her a little about our
culture and traditionally conservative and classy way of doing things, 
for which we Southerners are all so proud.
So cheers to you, Ivana!  I hope you enjoy your special day today!


Let's start with the location. 
Since Ivana's shower is being held right here in the Queen City,
I immediately turned to the The Duke Mansion.
I've attended a number of events at this gorgeous home, now operating
as a Southern Bed and Breakfast, and I've never been less than enamored
with the home and ground's interior and exterior beauty.
I know Ivana and the closest ladies in her life will enjoy their stay here.
I thought it might be nice for Ivana's guests to enter the Mansion,


and as they pass through the foyer...


 ...delight themselves with either one of these tasty treats.


or if you are feeling extra festive in celebration of Ivana's 
upcoming nuptials, perhaps treat yourself to something a little more bold;
a Mint Julep garnished with fresh mint, served from a Julep cup.


The gardens at The Duke Mansion are a lovely place 
for conversation and good tidings. 



It's starting to get warm in the South,
so we'll make sure the gardens are flanked with lots of 
Sago Palms and Ferns to help us feel a little more breezy in the heat.



What shall we serve?  Nothing to heavy.  We will dine on a light lunch.  
How about a few passed hors d' oeuvres, consisting of finger sandwiches?


Naturally, Deviled Eggs.


Without question, little ham biscuits.


Making our way back inside, we'll take our seats at tables draped
with white tables cloths and delicate doilies placed at each setting.


I'd find a way to work them into this table, which cheerfully
displays all of the traditional elements of a Southern table, with a
modern twist thanks to the chevron napkins an colored candlesticks.


The table will, of course, be accessorized with 



We'll serve a delicate lunch consisting of avocado and grapefruit salad, 
supplemented with fresh lump crab meat.  No filler.


Passed garlic cheese biscuits.  Hhhmmm Hmmm.


If you've saved room for desert,
I was thinking Bananas Foster prepared table side.  



At least that is what I was planning on, until saw this.
Ivana, I know about you and your little sweet tooth.  
Eat your heart out!


But I must warn you, this might be you...


We must shower you will gifts, my dear.
I can think of nothing more southern or luxurious than 
monogrammed linens from Leontine Linens.

 

You'll need this as you exchange vows with your lucky lad, Philippe.


As parting gifts, I hope your guests will enjoy Quartz Votive Holders 
Store owner and Blogger, Mackenzie, offers just the cutest things!



Since Ivana has a thing for pastels, I thought I would wear
this ensemble I recently styled.  Ironically enough,
the photos were taken just doors down from The Duke Mansion.
How do I look, Ivana?
The floppy brimmed straw hat, a warm weather staple 
for any Southern Lady, is good for keeping cool on sunny days.




You certainly don't need me to tell you this, Ivana, but...


You already are, my dear, and I'm having
so much fun watching your stylish self do it.
I hope you have had a lovely day!
I look forward to following along with more 
preparations leading up to your big day!!

For the love of celebrating with friends, in the very best of style-- Whitley